Hi ,
Having clarity and higher consciousness in a relationship begins within yourself.
It's often hard to see what's blocking a relationship from moving forward, coming into your life, or finding balance when
you're in the middle of the situation.
There are a few rules you can follow to navigate your way through any relationship in your life:
- Let Them Off The Hook – Remember, you can’t look outside yourself and ask others to clean up their muck. In so doing, you in essence put them in charge as you are really saying “Do this to make me happy”. Make it a practice to express to others that your happiness depends entirely on
you! Choose to see them through the eyes of goodness as opposed to wrongness.
- Think Good Feeling Thoughts – What you give your thoughts to, you create. We will talk about catching yourself in old, left brain thoughts and slowing down the momentum to that way of thinking, to the extent that you actually recreate the way you think.
- Change Old Paradigms and Beliefs – Do you find yourself saying “I’m afraid to get hurt, again.” Or,
“I will never find Mr. Right.” These are old beliefs, and since a belief is merely a thought you have simply thought over and over until you believed it, you can now change this!
- Be Aware of Energy Boundaries & Repeating Patterns – Are you carrying on the energy of your parents? Do you recognize that you are having the same relationship obstacles as your parents? Did they have highly charged and anger-filled arguments? And now, do you? You may want to consider the
repeated energy pattern you are subconsciously creating.
- Release Energy Cords – Only our pure, positive essence is allowed in our space at any given time. Do you find yourself thinking of that old relationship or the disagreement with your partner to the extent that it overwhelms you? This could be a crossing of energy boundaries that is unnecessary and not serving you.
When you follow these rules, you'll find relationships balancing and coming to you
because of your positive radiance.
